As you'll have read in my last post, I made the mistake of being too clinical in my approach to this whole thing, and the emotional and mental impact of this whole thing hit me like a train. Just as a warning, images of Tony's wounds around 7 days after surgery are shown further down in this post, I will warn closer to the time in case anyone doesn't want to see. They will be at the very bottom of the blog with a huge warning before hand. I'm going to compress the surgery week into one blog and break it down day by day. Tony's hospital stay was for a total of 9 days, the average is 10 to 14, but many get discharged as early as 7 days post op. It all depends on how well the patient is healing. Tony's brother and partner arrived over from abroad the night before surgery so the 24 hours pre op were pretty crazy too! A brilliant way to take our minds from what was coming next. They were staying with us for 2 weeks, which was good for me as I wasn't coming h...
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