I will be posting an update on a what to expect day to day with all of this, both from the patient's and the other person's perspectives. Before i head into writing those though there's something i feel is really important to share. Maybe someone can learn from my mistakes. We felt reallly prepared going into surgery week, we had done lots of research on the procedure, recovery, medical terms used, what pipes ro expect post surgery, monitoring for issues or complications. I'm not taking anything away from the brilliant people who work in our NHS, or drawing a paralell between me on the good old google, and someone who had an education and career in this field. Tony and i are both very information driven and ready for pretty much anything. I felt prepared. I forgot one part of all of this... I approached Tony's operation clinically, I didn't approach it as the partner of someone who was about to undergo a life changing major operation. I'm very lucky in that...
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